Only count as female friends your buddies’ wives / fiancées / gfs, and obviously ignore any attraction.
It’s sad guys let gals friend-zone them in the first place
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electricangel
February 5, 2023 at 1:19 pm
“obviously ignore any attraction”
I’d prefer you recognize the attraction so you know not to act upon it. A friend married a woman 12 years his junior. I’ve always thought she was an exceptional catch, being smart, pretty, and submissive. But she’s not MY catch, and I’m good with that.
Will S.
February 5, 2023 at 8:06 pm
Well yeah; it is good to acknowledge anything that is there but then consciously DECIDE to ignore it, after.
I personally know of a situation of this, two married people, married to others while having some degree of attraction to each other but each being more attracted to and definitely loving their spouses, and will never act upon the attraction that’s there.
awildgoose
February 5, 2023 at 1:28 pm
Men need to comprehend and accept that women are largely unable to love them in the way they prefer to be loved.
Will S.
February 5, 2023 at 8:07 pm
Alas…
feeriker
February 5, 2023 at 5:02 pm
BINGO.
Will S.
February 5, 2023 at 8:07 pm
🙂
fuzziewuzziebear
February 5, 2023 at 10:36 pm
Having been there, men have to be told that, once in the friend zone, you are never going to get out, even with the passage of years and the acquisition of status. There is nothing men can do to change this. Walk away.
Will S.
February 6, 2023 at 4:51 am
Yes.
Will S.
February 6, 2023 at 12:09 pm
thedeti
February 7, 2023 at 6:11 pm
deti on men and women being friends:
1) men and women cannot be friends. Anyone who thinks they can be is a fool and is lying.
2) when a woman says “let’s just be friends”, she means “I am never, ever in a million years going to fuck you. I’m not interested now and I never, ever will be, I’m saying ‘let’s just be friends’ because telling you the truth is too uncomfortable and because I want to be able to use you for orbiting, attention, favors, money, etc. So can you please just accept what I said and let’s move on, so as to avoid any further discomfort?”
3) men need to know that 2) is what’s really being said.
4) upon hearing “let’s just be friends”, the man should immediately say “no, not interested” and never have anything to do with her again.
5) The woman will promptly shame him, call him names, and accuse him of being an asshole. “What, my friendship isn’t good enough for you? Dickwad! Asswipe!”
6) The man should disregard this; but if he says anything, he should say
“Ok, ‘friend’. Wingman for me. Introduce me to your hot friends and vouch for me.”
“Ok, ‘friend’. Give, er, loan me $100.”
“Ok, ‘friend’. Let me borrow your car.”
“Ok, ‘friend’. Let’s go get drinks. You buy this time. I’ll get it next time.”
“Ok, ‘friend’. Help me move my apartment/office/ this heavy piece of furniture.”
“OK, ‘friend’. Give me a lift to work tomorrow.”
“Because, you know, that’s what ‘friends’ do for each other, right?”
Will S.
February 8, 2023 at 1:25 am
Preach it, Brother Deti!
thedeti
February 7, 2023 at 6:12 pm
“Ok, ‘friend’. Come on over to my place and let’s Netflix and chill. I’ve got frozen pizza. You bring the booze.”
Will S.
February 8, 2023 at 1:25 am
🙂