Woman who had sex with 18 different men shocked that men don’t want to marry her

07 Aug

See deti’s comment, too, at the original post.


Does being a virgin before marriage affect marital stabilitity? Does being a virgin before marriage affect marital stability?

Sunshine Mary linked to a post from Reddit by a 32-year old “progressive” woman who is surprised that 15 years of sleeping around with 18 different guys is not attractive to marriage-minded men.


My parents are first generation immigrants. I have a younger brother and younger sister. In my family I was always the rebellious one; I would often challenge my parents. My family was very strict, when it came to dating and my siblings usually fell in line. However, I would challenge that norm.

My brother and sister were very repressed with their sexualities as a result, while I lost my virginity at 17 to my then boyfriend. While my brother and followed the traditional Indian path. My brother ended up not having any sexual contact with a girl until he got married at 25 (arranged marriage) and now…

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3 responses to “Woman who had sex with 18 different men shocked that men don’t want to marry her

  1. deti

    August 8, 2014 at 5:16 pm

    Will S:

    Copying another comment I left at WinteryKnight’s:

    The last two paragraphs were written by Dalrock in response to the comment I made on a post at his blog.

    The original comment and response by Dalrock is at Dalrock’s blog at a post I cannot find right now. (

    Agree with Will S. I don’t see the problem with the word “slut”. You can change it if you want, but I fail to see the problem with calling sluts what they are — sluts.

    I understand the desire to persuade. I disagree, however, that we’re dealing with women who don’t know what they’re doing. In my experience, sluts know exactly what they are and what they’re doing — they just demand the right to do those things and to have that past without being judged for it. I’m not going to play that game. If you want to act like a slut, sleep with men like a slut, and be a slut, then that’s what you are — a slut. And if you had that in your past, then you WERE a slut. I see no reason to mince words about it. No one will have any problem with calling men any manner of pejoratives when they apply — drunk, drug addict, sloth, layabout, fatass.

  2. Will S.

    August 8, 2014 at 10:42 pm

    Thanks, deti.

    I agree.


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