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Attitude is to Women as Game is to Men

29 Apr

Poster Doclove over at The Spearhead comments on what makes American women so unattractive to him:

The most disheartening thing about American women(and I include Anglophone Canadian women in this too.) is their attitude. … You will never see so many women who date and have voluntary sex with thugs and douchebags and assholes as you do in the USA in sheer percentage of the population. You are right that the American women are socially mean, have an entitlement complex, manipulative, cruel, gold-digging, have shameless idiotic self destructive behavior and vicious as well as like to shame men more and not let men be men to higher degrees on average than in other countries.

Svar and I have noticed the same thing about urban women in New York. I would posit that there are hotter women in New York than Texas, but the masculine attitude that the resident women need to assume makes them harder and less feminine.

Svar and I made our judgments the way men form their initial impression of a woman, visually. A woman’s chief method of attracting (but not necessarily keeping) male attention is what nature has genetically endowed her with; this is cruel, but unalterable. But just as ugly women are more likely to become feminists, women with pleasing personalities can cut YEARS off their perceived age. As I wrote in the above-linked comment:

There is a new woman working at my office. She is ever-cheerful, and is attractive, with a nice figure. I estimated her age at 24; others guessed 27, and the HR guy, who saw her resume, guessed 30. She is 34. Just as game can turn an unattractive beta into a lesser alpha who attracts women, her pleasant attitude and approach caused EVERY man who noticed her (and every man has noticed her) to take YEARS off her age. The 463-point bullet list ages women well past their years.

So, ladies, be cheerful, smile, be positive, upbeat, submissive, and supportive: it will take years off your perceived appearance, and cost a lot less than Botox.

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Posted by on April 29, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

11 responses to “Attitude is to Women as Game is to Men

  1. Laceagate

    April 29, 2012 at 11:13 pm

    I’m surprised no one has commented on this yet. This article rings true in so many ways.

    A hard attitude is adopted by women because it’s seen as what will get people to take you seriously. I’ll be honest, I can admit to believing this at one time. However, I’ve noticed if you are consistent in your words and behavior, it won’t matter how you look and people will take you seriously. No one takes the slut seriously who whines about how guys aren’t treating her right but she jumps into bed with thugs.

    There is a difference between being serious and being hard, where one is more approachable and more easy to soften than the other.

     
  2. Will S.

    April 29, 2012 at 11:16 pm

    Good advice, EA!

     
  3. electricangel1978

    April 30, 2012 at 12:09 am

    @Laceagate

    There is a difference between being serious and being hard, where one is more approachable and more easy to soften than the other.

    Perfect! Women need to seem approachable so they can perform their one task that they do better than men unquestionably: build community through informal connections. A hard, take-no-prisoners attitude shuts off this avenue of connection.

    This is particularly important to a Patriarch, who must always appear imposing if he is to be a true patriarch. Without some component of his life that is approachable, no new connections can come into his world. Women who are feminine are the key here, and this masculinizing is just another loss to our world.

     
  4. Laceagate

    April 30, 2012 at 12:24 am

    I always knew when I was in my late teens, there was a reason why men would tell me to smile more. One guy even said to me, “You don’t need to look so serious. You can smile, you know.” I was 19 at that point. I didn’t take offense but mostly thought “Hmm…” There are so many women who take offense, when there is no need. They’re probably the hard attitude ones.

     
  5. Elspeth

    April 30, 2012 at 10:15 am

    There is a difference between being serious and being hard, where one is more approachable and more easy to soften than the other.

    Absolutely true, Lacey!

     
  6. Svar

    April 30, 2012 at 6:25 pm

    I love it when people talk about me in their articles.

     
  7. Svar

    April 30, 2012 at 6:29 pm

    “So, ladies, be cheerful, smile, be positive, upbeat, submissive, and supportive: it will take years off your perceived appearance, and cost a lot less than Botox.”

    This is 100% true. As a young man who’s very fond of young women, I have noticed that smiling and acting girly is very effective on me. It’s basically like Asshole Game(sure the methods may be the exact opposite but the effect’s the same) for women.

     
  8. David Collard

    May 1, 2012 at 12:00 am

    Svar, if a girl isn’t cute and giggly and girly in her twenties, there is something wrong.

     
  9. Laceagate

    May 1, 2012 at 11:12 pm

    Or…she could just be serious, extremely introverted, or shy. There’s plenty of cute girls who are so painfully shy they just blend into the corner.

     
  10. Gay State Girl

    May 3, 2012 at 4:30 pm

    Depends what you mean by “girliness.” One has to assume a level of seriousness and maturity if they are to take on even female adult roles. Otherwise, she can not be an effective disciplinarian for her children.

     
  11. Chris

    June 2, 2012 at 6:49 am

    Gay State Girl, sort of.

    Being pleasant, courteous, thinking well of people — but still being serious, strong willed, self disciplined — helps men and women. But we are divergent sexes.

    I’m going to ignore for a second New York and the American Princesses. (My advice to both my boys is to find a shy geeky girl who is cute because she is interesting and will remain so). Girls will be girls. The number of times the tea room — five female PhDs — talk about boots or coats (winter is upon us) or… bring baking… is without count.

    Us guys? Formula One, Math, Work, Kids, Computer Games… and all this bores the girls.

    Most men I know enjoy women being comfortable with being girly. They do not mind the feminine meetings. But they prefer not to be part of them, as they want to keep their man-card. Besides, we want to go play with our toys: our hobbies, our gear. Just like we did with our cars as kids.

    Traditional societies accept this: there is the mother’s union and the tea room, the Lodge and the Pub.

    It would be a sad world when men and women cannot enjoy things simply because they are mostly enjoyed by only one gender.

     

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